In recent, INTENSE conversation, it was discussed who was the “prize” in the relationship.
For instance who is the prize Ciara or Russell? Who is the prize Jay Z or Beyonce? Who is the prize Michelle or Obama?
Really take a minute and choose! So for Ciara and Russell, I chose Russell! Why? Because based on what is portrayed to the media, he was a clean man. Meaning no baggage, no kids, no baby mommas, no scandals, etc.
In my opinion Ciara came with baggage - a baby, a baby father and she was with multiple men. I believe if you’re asking a man this question he would say Ciara. (But that’s a whole other LLS Diary Insert)
But why does a “prize” have to even exist in a relationship? Why can’t it be that both involved are both the prize? As I reach my 30’s, I consider settling down and getting married, but I don’t want to feel like I’m the prize (even though I am the prize lol) I definitely don’t want that to be the case, nor do I want for my significant other to be the prize. I want us both compliment each other.
Until next time,
LoveLee LoveLee hold my secrets and keep them tight, don’t tell them while I’m asleep at night.